Hey all! As the title suggests, I'm interested in receiving some feedback on some aspects between two good friends of mine. They're in a relationship and yes, it is very serious. But when I took a look at their synastry, I noticed something in particular that concerned me.His Mars is Opposite Her Pluto (8 degrees; extremely wide, yes, I know).
Her Mars is Squared His Pluto (5 degrees; again, yes, wide).
Now this is a volatile mix. I understand that the aspects have a bit of room for them to move around in, so perhaps the drama will be less? They'll have more leg room, I suppose, since they're both mature individuals and maybe the wide orb will allow them to grow into the better characteristics of the aspects?
I also noticed a few other things that perhaps help to soften the severity of having such a double whammy.
Her Moon Semi-Sextile His Mars (exact)
Her Sun Trine His Moon (exact)
Her Moon Conjunct His Venus (4 degrees)
Her Moon Trine His Pluto (6 degrees)
Her Mercury Inconjunct His Pluto (Exact)
Her Venus Trine His Pluto (-1 degree)
Her Jupiter Conjunct His Venus (4 degrees)
Her NN Trine His Venus (-3 degrees)
Her NN Trine His Pluto (1 degree)
Her Sun Trine His ASC (2 degrees)
Her Moon Trine His ASC (9 degrees; EXTREMELY wide)
Her Psyche Sextile His Eros (5 degrees; wide)
His Sun Opposite Her Pluto (1 degree)
His Moon Square Her Pluto (Exact)
His Venus Opposite Her Uranus (9 degrees; EXTREMELY wide)
His Venus Semi-Sextile Her ASC (-1 degree)
His Mars Conjunct Her ASC (5 degrees; wide)
His NN Conjunct Her Venus (3 degrees)
His Vertex Conjunct Her Eros (7 degrees; extremely wide)
His Psyche Trine Her Mars (-4 degrees)
His Valentine Conjunct Her Venus (4 degrees)
Their Suns Semi-sextile (Exact)
Their Moons Trine (7 degrees; yes, extremely wide again)
Venus Conjunct Venus (4 degrees)
In their composite chart, they have:
Sun Semi-sextile Venus (-1 degree)
Moon Quintile Venus (-1 degree)
Moon Sextile Mars (5 degrees; wide, yes)
Venus Conjunct Mars (5 degrees; wide)
Venus Opposite Uranus (6 degrees; wide)
Venus Trine Pluto (8 degrees; extremely wide)
Venus Sextile NN (exact)
Venus Trine SN (exact)
Mars Opposite Uranus (Exact)
Mars Sesquiquadrate Pluto (-1 degree)
Eros Conjunct Venus (4 degrees)
Eros Conjunct Mars (exact)
Venus Square ASC (-6 degrees; wide)
So, what do you think? Do these aspects create a potent mix for them to be obsessively turned on by the other? Are the orbs too wide for it to matter or do they leave some leg room so that the aspects can indicate growth? Do they help to soften the blows of Mars square/opposite Pluto? Thanks so much for all of your help and consideration! I can't wait to tell her what all of this means!
Happy Halloween (Samhain)!!!
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